This is pretty much me except for the Callie/George and MerDer thing. I didnt like Lexie at all but strangely the only time I did was with Mark. If they would’ve kept them together, I could’ve lived with it. But broken up, pining, and acting like nine year olds just made me dislike her more and want Mark to snap out of it and be an adult. But yeah, while fandom isnt my thing anyway, I definitely feel like an outsider as a fan…I rarely see or enjoy what the majority do. Particularly with popular characters or ships.