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is it shitty for a white person to say "I like your hair"?






You can like someone’s hair. I don’t think anyone is gonna be upset by you telling them their hair looks nice.

Just don’t be extra about that shit and don’t ask if you can touch a black person’s hair unless that’s like your best damn friend.

and don’t follow up with “is it yours?” “is that your real hair” or any variation of that bullshit.

Omg yes! Don’t do that shit.

Black people are more than capable of growing long hair. And even if it’s not their hair, it’s none of your damn business unless yall cool like that.

Aug 3




I’m white and I hate my hair. But I will not be denied a job for my hair. I will not have random people wanting to touch my hair. I will not be asked if I have a weave. I will not be kicked out of school for my hair. I may hate my hair, but will not be persecuted because of if. White people do not need the natural hair movement.



Damn, I love you guys

and I miss you though we never met.  I love you guys like whoa.  Seriously, you’re there for me when no one else is.  Ass early in the morning or in the middle of the night, you’re there.  You read my stories, laugh at my silliness, listen to my words, validate my thoughts and feelings, and make me feel like the space I’m filling is worth begin filled and how the hell do you even put all of that into sufficient words.  I wish I could.  I wish you knew.


my loves


my loves

Jun 7


I don’t get the hype about Rihanna.

Jun 4

Extra special shout out to the two people who went and hit up You Give My Life a Hope That’s Real.  I dont know who you are but I love you.



Here, have some Ming Na



Here, have some Ming Na

My day was moving along a pretty bearable path when a shit storm came out of nowhere and threatened to bring out the Godzilla in me.  I went straight to Tumblr and used it to calm down.  I owe each and every one of you a thank you for that.

May 5

To my friends

Thanks for being here, in good times and bad, through Steak Saturdays and cats in hoodies, through possible Jayne Atkinson birthday tweets, and fandom rants…I love you guys.  You are funny and talented and sweet and kind and adorable and snarky and it wouldnt be the same here without you <3<3<3

Mar 4



Here’s the thing about being pro choice that people don’t get…
You don’t have to morally agree with abortion to be pro choice. That’s why it’s not called pro abortion. It’s an understanding that you can’t make that choice for someone else and they have full control over that not you. It’s pro I’m not the boss of everyone else.

This is important.

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